Have you ever felt like you have a thousand tabs open in your brain? That was me last month—drowning in to-dos, struggling to focus, and feeling like I was getting absolutely nowhere in my business and personal goals.

Then I discovered the 15-minute brain dump, and everything changed.

Why I Was Stuck

Looking back, it's clear what was happening. I was trying to hold everything in my head—client deadlines, content ideas, personal goals, household tasks, relationship stuff—you name it. My brain was cluttered, and I couldn't see what actually mattered.

The most frustrating part? I could successfully tackle other challenges in my life (including recovering from a major injury to compete in a fitness competition), but somehow my daily workflow felt impossible to manage.

The Solution That Changed Everything

One morning, feeling particularly overwhelmed, I grabbed a notebook and set a timer for 15 minutes. I wrote down every single thing in my head—no filter, no organization, no judgm...

Have you ever been so stuck in your head that you couldn't even begin to picture what "right" looks like? I recently had someone message me saying she was having a panic attack, and in that moment, she remembered something I said: "What if it all goes right?" That one thought helped her push through the panic, reset her state, and regain control. That's how powerful our mindset truly is.

But sometimes, just thinking isn't enough. When we're deep in anxiety and fogged up with negativity, we have to physically move through it.

The Science Behind Movement and Mindset

Have you ever noticed how animals shake their bodies after a stressful situation? My dog Pepper does this all the time. When she gets overwhelmed, she shakes it out. As her trainer explained, she's resetting her nervous system—shaking off the stress and returning to the present moment.

We humans can do the same thing. It's called somatic release, a technique used in therapy and trauma work to help the body release buil...

I recently recorded a special episode for my podcast that included a five-minute walking meditation designed to shift energy, clear the mind, and connect with our highest selves. I wanted to share why this practice has been so transformative for me and could be for you too.Today I'm walking you through a transformative walking meditation designed to shift energy, clear the mind, and connect with one's highest self. The meditation emphasizes the importance of affirmations, self-empowerment, and visualizing success, encouraging listeners to embrace your best self and reflect on your journey towards personal growth.

Breaking the Negative Thought Cycle

We all get caught in spirals of stress, overthinking, and worst-case scenario thinking. I've found that one of the most powerful questions I can ask myself is "What if it all goes right?" This simple shift in perspective can instantly transport me from anxiety to possibility.

The Walking Meditation Practice

The meditation I created co...

Recently, I found myself stuck – unable to even imagine my perfect day. My mind was frozen, trapped in survival mode, constantly fixating on what could go wrong. Sound familiar?

Breaking Through the Mental Barrier

I discovered a powerful approach to reconnecting with my potential. It starts with a simple walk and a profound question: "What if it all goes right?"

The Walk of Possibility

During my walk, I began a mindfulness technique. I named what I saw around me – "tree," "sky," "bird" – grounding myself in the present moment. This isn't just random talking; it's a proven method to calm your nervous system and shift out of stress mode.

Visualizing Without Limits

The real magic happened when I started to imagine my ideal life without constraints. No money worries, no self-doubt – just pure possibility. I challenged myself to picture:

• My morning routine
• How I'd feel throughout the day
• The people around me
• My energy and mindset

Practical Steps to Transformation

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Recently, I found myself stuck in a cycle of self-doubt that felt impossible to escape. My business wasn't flowing, my goals seemed distant, and I was drowning in negative thinking. Sound familiar?

The Turning Point

I realized I'd stopped doing something crucial – visualizing my perfect day and believing in possibilities. When everything feels like a struggle, it's easy to lose hope. But I discovered a powerful approach to breaking through this mental fog.

My Three-Step Rescue Plan

1. Feel It, But Don't Live There

I gave myself 24 hours to fully experience my frustration. I journaled, talked to friends, and allowed myself to feel everything without judgment. The key? Setting a time limit so I didn't get permanently stuck.

2. Ground Yourself

During a walk with my dog, I started a simple grounding technique. I began naming everything I saw out loud – "tree," "bird," "water." It sounds silly, but it pulled me back to the present moment and broke my spiral of negative thinking.

I'm sitting in my hotel room in Nashville, feeling inspired after an incredible breathwork session today. You know those moments when clarity just hits you? That's what I want to share with you today—a simple but powerful concept that's been transforming both my clients' journeys and my own: checkpoints.

Here's what I've noticed with the high-achieving women in my programs: They show up consistently for weeks (sometimes getting four workouts in, sometimes only two), but they convince themselves they're not making progress because their consistency wasn't "perfect." Sound familiar?

This is exactly why checkpoints are non-negotiable in my fitness programs. We always begin with a strength test on day one—a practice I started years ago when I was falling out of love with working out. My friend Amanda and I would stay late at my gym and test different movements (kind of like an army PT test). We'd stay consistent with our training and then come back to those same tests weeks later to s...

I had one of those weeks. You know the kind—where everything you've been working on falls apart, and you feel like an absolute failure. I was sitting in my office, staring at the remnants of a project that completely flopped despite all my hard work, and I felt that familiar wave of disappointment wash over me.

But instead of spiraling, I stopped. I sat down and reflected on all the other times I've face-planted (sometimes literally) in my life. Like when I tore my ACL on American Ninja Warrior after training for years to get there. Or when I realized my gym wasn't financially sustainable despite the countless late nights I'd put into it.

Each time I thought my world was ending, but each time I got back up—and came back stronger.

That's when I remembered the quote that changed everything for me: "When one door closes, another one opens, but no one talks about the hallway in between." We're all familiar with those hallway moments—when one chapter has ended, but the next hasn't beg...

I'm coming to you today from the middle of what I call an "oh shit moment." You know the feeling—when everything you've been working toward seems to crumble right in front of you. My latest project completely flopped, and if I'm being honest, I feel like I'm failing big time.

But I stopped. I sat myself down and reflected on all the other times in my life when I felt exactly like this. The moments where I face-planted so hard in front of people and wasn't sure if I would ever get back up.

And you know what I realized? I always get back up. Every. Single. Time. Not only that, I always come back 10 times stronger.

The Hallway Between Doors

There's this quote that changed my perspective: "When one door closes, another one opens, but no one talks about the hallway in between."

Right now, I'm in that hallway—the space between an ending and a new beginning. It's dark. I can't see the light ahead, and every step feels like I'm making things harder. But I've learned that the hallway is...

Have you ever caught yourself waiting for someone or something to come along and fix everything? I know I have. But here's the truth I've learned that changed everything for me: nobody is coming to save you. This might sound harsh at first, but it's actually the most liberating realization I've ever had.

The Moment of Truth

I remember sitting in my apartment after another crushing setback, feeling completely defeated. I was waiting for that perfect opportunity, that one person who would recognize my potential, or that lucky break that would catapult me to success. Then it hit me – I was the hero I had been waiting for all along.

This realization didn't come easily. It came after years of setbacks, tears, and wondering "why me?" But once I embraced this truth, everything shifted. I stopped being a passenger in my own life and grabbed the steering wheel.

You Are the Hero of Your Own Journey

Think about your favorite movies or books. The hero always faces challenges – that's what ...

Are you consciously creating your future or simply reacting to whatever life throws your way? I believe that "If you're not living your life by design, you are living your life by default."

This idea, inspired by my close friend Jodie Cook's book "Stop Acting Like You're Going to Live Forever," challenges us to take control of our narrative rather than letting circumstances dictate our path.

What Does Living By Default Mean?

Living by default means you're merely reacting to situations instead of creating them. It's falling into routines, letting others' opinions dictate your choices, and staying stuck in patterns that don't serve you. It's the path of least resistance—and often, least fulfillment.

The Power of Intentional Living

When you live by design, you step into the driver's seat of your life. You create a roadmap, decide how you want to feel, what you want to achieve, and how you'll get there. This doesn't mean everything will go perfectly—setbacks are inevitable—but you'...